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Cronono
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Quarantine Check Ins

While we haven't had much going on in a while, I just wanted to reach out and let you know I hope you're all safe and sound. These are crazy times we're living in and it's important to me that I know you are all managing through.

deadDMwalking
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Thanks for checking in! I'm doing really well, all things considered.

The kids (13, 9, 5) have been home since March 15th with very limited chances to go to the store, but our neighborhood pool has just reopened, so I've been taking them there every day. We took this opportunity to adopt a puppy, which has given us all some extra chores but we've enjoyed taking the dog for walks and taking her to play at the dog park (using proper social distancing).

My parents both have cancer, and my father just sliced his thumb badly enough that he had to have surgery so he MIGHT get use of his thumb again in several months. Since they live in California and I live in Tennessee, it's not really something I can do anything about. But my brother lives with my parents and my sister lives in the neighborhood, so I have family checking on them.

My wife's father has inoperable cancer. He's just been admitted to a drug trial which might save him, but it doesn't look good at the moment. They had tried microwave ablation and some other type of non-surgical way of removing it, but ultimately that didn't work out. He just had to have his spleen removed to get healthy enough to qualify for the drug trial. The wife/kids are going out the first week of July to see him (possibly say final goodbyes) but because of the puppy looks like I'm staying home.

I'm very lucky that I have a job where I work from home, and the impacts of closures have been minimal for me. My wife is a university professor, so she did some online teaching in the spring, and will probably have to do some of that in the fall, but for the most part we're healthy and safe. There are things about 'safer at home' that aren't ideal, but we're really in a good position to make the most of it. I know compared to most Americans, we're truly blessed.

How are the people you love?

Fixxxer
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Things here in Oregon are... surreal, I'd say. Like many other places, many of the locals seem to have just forgotten about the pandemic. My county is the last county in Oregon to have its Phase 1 opening, which takes effect the day after tomorrow. I've been working through the entire thing, which has been difficult enough, so I'm really not looking forward to the tidal wave of people I'm expecting to have to put up with.

I've been wanting to run another Arkham Horror game on The Archive. I've just been holding off until my county reopens and I can see what my schedule will look like, and how exhausted I'm likely to feel. If it doesn't seem too bad, look for that in the near future.

My fiancee has been furloughed this whole time and has only left the house on a couple of occasions. That's been rough for her. Even with the county reopening soon, her work will remain closed as it's in downtown Portland, where protests are regularly turning into conflicts.

Portland has seen some pretty brutal stuff during the protests. And a lot of negative has come out of Oregon in general. It hasn't been pretty.

But we're otherwise doing well enough. I hope that everyone else is likewise okay.

Board Rider
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For my fiance and I not much has changed. We both work government jobs so we continue to work at the office. Neither of us got sick and our part of the suburb is far enough away from the protests so we haven't seen much of that either. All in all 2020 hasn't been all that negative for us. I hope everyone stays safe.

HVB

I should maybe be back to work before the end of the month, although my work also depends on the number of people comfortable enough to go to a day spa at this time.
I know people who have died & people who have gotten very sick from the virus, but no one in my family has been sick so far thankfully.
The "dog" beach closed to dogs in mid May to prepare for humans, but one of the local dog parks FINALLY reopened today so my dogs will be able to run offleash again! So all is good :)

Talanall
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I'm okay. I've talked about it elsewhere, but my wife's a physician, and she provides primary care in a couple of prison/ICE detention facilities (which is to say that the residents are correctional inmates and people who are churning through the hell that is deportation proceedings, kept in different sectors of the prison). Her facilities both house male and female residents, and the majority of them are immigrants.

As of about three weeks ago, one of her facilities had about five dozen active COVID-19 cases, and some of them had been sent for hospital care, including ventilation. Nobody under her care has died so far, and the overwhelming majority of all the cases she's seen have been mild. That's been a huge relief for her, because anyone who is incarcerated basically has to be considered to be immunocompromised. A deluge of critical cases seemed like it might be very much on the table, back when this illness first began to show up in prison environments.

I think we can all recognize that this pandemic has been incredibly stressful for those folks; it's terrible just being incarcerated, and if you're stuck in a barracks-room setting with a bunch of people during a pandemic, it's even worse. They can't exactly social distance.

Things have been rough for the nurses, doctors, and other support staff, and for the guards, too, but ultimately they have a choice about being there. When the case counts were on the upswing, there were a couple of very tense moments when it seemed like there could be a riot. The COVID-19 population is down to about fifteen cases, now, which is great news, but the staff is stretched a little thin; they're getting sick, or the stress is getting to them, or both.

Neither I nor my wife has gotten sick. I'm a house husband most of the time, so social isolation is kind of a normal thing for me; most of my friendships are conducted via text, e-mail, or social media and have been for years. I'm habituated to it, and it doesn't really have a discernible impact on my mental health anymore. Given that my wife is a medical provider, she's been working steadily this whole time. So we're really fortunate in the sense that this hasn't caused us any financial hardship.

We live in rural Louisiana, so riots and police suppression of protesters haven't figured figured prominently in our day-to-day in the same way that they have for those of you who're living in or near a larger city. I've watched the news coverage of that whole shit show in complete horror, and it's a relief to me that all of you are okay.

Anxiety about my wife's work life has been a major issue for me for this whole time. Now that people are generally less panicky, it's looking like Laura isn't going to be swamped under a tidal wave of serious COVID-19 cases, and there is less cause for us to worry that there will be riots at the facilities she serves, I'm doing better with that. For the two and a half months or so that this pandemic has been a clear and present concern in the USA, I've found it difficult to concentrate enough to keep up with my notes and planning for the campaigns I run here. I kind of assumed that you guys would understand why I got quiet and stayed that way.

I'm getting better now, and I expect that pretty soon I'll be able to hold my shit together well enough for play to continue. Assuming that everybody else is also at least feeling semi-functional and is interested in doing so. I'm not going to commit to a specific date, or even a time frame, right now.

Wæs se grimma gæst Grendel haten,
mære mearcstapa, se þe moras heold

Obsidian_Spoon
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I'm good here in Austin.

My company didn't give a damn being told to shut down and wasn't about to lose profits, so they used some garbage loophole to keep us open and coming to work, threatening us with unexcused absences and no pay if we stayed home past our sick days/PTO. So, other than reduced traffic and people in masks at the grocery store, the pandemic hasn't really changed a thing in my physical life. My partner was on paid leave for about a month, but they're back to work now too. They're paid full time but work reduced hours with split shifts so there aren't so many people at work at one time, so that's both good and bad.

Emotionally is a different matter. It's wild in the US right now.

Catalyst
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Working from home, living the dream.

Life here in Connecticut has been strange during this whole affair, but we're getting back to normal a bit. I'm in the New Haven area, which is right on the edge of the New York zone of influence (it's a 90 minute train ride to Manhattan from here) We're on phase 2 of our reopening, which means that restaurants and bars can start doing indoor seating if they've taken appropriate measures for social distancing. That said, you won't catch me eating in a restaurant for a while - probably not until we have a vaccine.

Ironically, I'm playing a lot more D&D than I ever have before. Currently running a weekly game and playing in two others through Fantasy Grounds. Also getting caught up on a lot of history podcats! Good times!

Fixxxer
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History podcasts? Any recommendations? I've very fond of Hardcore History by Dan Carlin.

https://www.dancarlin.com/hardcore-history-series/

Cronono
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I'm glad folks are reporting that they're making it through. We're all dealing with a lot right now and I don't think it is easy for anyone to be adapting. It sounds like we're making it - we're all enduring even if it is a travail.

I'd really love for this quarantine to be over - I still haven't met Spoon and I moved to Austin over a year ago at this point. I'm trying to make the most of this time by focusing on books I've always wanted to read or taking up exercise et cetera. That said, I'd love to be back to playing some D&D with friends, even if this time is productive.

Catalyst
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Hardcore History is great! I also really like History of China, History of Japan, Fall of Civilizations, and History on Fire.

deadDMwalking
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Weird week. The whole family flew out to Arizona on the 4th of July because my wife's father was not doing well. He has bile duct cancer, and it stopped responding to the treatment he was undergoing. There were a couple of clinical drug trials that might have helped, but they required him to have a higher platelet count than he had. So 4 weeks ago he had part of his Spleen removed - that raises your platelet count significantly - to the point that he qualified based on the standards they had outlined prior to getting his spleen removed. The people running the trial decided that was ARTIFICIALLY raising his platelet count, so he couldn't qualify.

When we arrived in Arizona, he was walking around unassisted, but spent a lot of time napping. On Tuesday when we were supposed to leave, he was completely bed-bound. My wife elected to stay so I returned with the kids.

He entered in-home hospice today. I haven't gotten much detail, but the hospice people indicated he's at the beginning of the [url=https://www.crossroadshospice.com/hospice-caregiver-support/end-of-life-... dying[/url] phase.

2020 can suck a big one.

deadDMwalking
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And it went faster than I think any of us expected; he died this morning at ~5:30 AM ET (2:30 local time in Arizona).

Fixxxer
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Oh, man. I'm so sorry for your family's loss, man.

Board Rider
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My condolences man. Try to keep the chin up.

HVB

My condolences. I hope your wife is doing alright :(

MinusInnocence
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I'm sorry to hear that, Brett. This is a terrible time for people to lose anyone, especially when they're all the way on the other side of the country.

We live about 15-20 minutes outside New Orleans. Back in March, things were pretty tense; everyone's collective anxiety over the general state of affairs during a global pandemic has since abated, but being stuck in the house is wearing on all of us. Until the beginning of this month I was the one doing supply runs for our home as well as my girlfriend's grandmother and great-grandmother. The grandma is doing her own shopping now, against my recommendation, but they're still extremely high maintenance. I've been drinking way more than is reasonable but I'm getting pretty good at it, so chalk that up as my life skill I've been working on during social distancing.

Our son is doing relatively well, all things considered, but not seeing his friends is obviously taking a toll. He understands this is the way things are for the foreseeable future, however, especially now that our daily case numbers are like three or four times higher than they were at the peak of when everyone was scared to death.

I'm mulling over some options for getting back into school; not enrolling at university to pursue an actual degree or anything, just taking advantage of all the free classes out there. But mustering the mental and emotional energy to do much more than daily routine stuff is a challenge.

I guess in terms of how we're doing I would say that nobody in our immediate circle has tested positive but psychologically things aren't great at all. The silver lining is that the two of us each have a history of mental illness so this isn't our first rodeo.

"Men are the only animals that devote themselves, day in and day out, to making one another unhappy. It is an art like any other. Its virtuosi are called altruists." - H.L. Mencken

Aladdar
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I'm surviving.

We just moved into a new house and most of the boxes are unpacked now.

The kids and wife have been home since March and I'm losing my mind trying to work from home, and they're losing their mind being home without much social interaction.

However schools open back up here in about a week, so we'll see whether that works or not moving forward. But until everyone gets sick from Covid and they shut it all down I'll get at least a few weeks of silence.

HVB

I've been back at work since the end of June when NY allowed the personal care industry to reopen. I work in a day spa and I was surprised at how busy we were upon reopening and still are. We can't offer services which would require a face mask to be taken off, such as facials, so some of our staff remains unemployed. We have implemented new protocol for everything and so far clients and staff feel safe and no covid cases have cropped up. Fingers crossed it remains this was but we will see what the future holds.

Fixxxer
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The place I work also has a salon in the same parking lot. The day state restrictions were eased, there was a line (with no social distancing) out the door and into the parking lot. The cops had to get involved because there were so many of them that the line was blocking ingress into the lot.

I'm glad to hear that similar business hasn't resulted into positive tests where you're at. That shit's scary.

Talanall and I talked some time back about prison environments because his wife and my best friend both had involvement with prisons on the working side. His story was a thousand times funnier than mine. My friend's state prison has had a series of outbreaks among the staff. He's currently the only sergeant in his unit that's cleared to work, and he's not happy about it. Of course, this is in Florida, which is a sort of nightmare hellscape compared to most other states right now.

Talanall
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My story involved a recurring problem my wife, a physician, deals with. It's not a daily thing. But it has happened considerably more than once.

The guys she takes care of sometimes decide it would be smart to take dominos (yes, like the game), break them into pieces, grind the edges smooth, and then cut open the skin on the shafts of their penises and insert the domino fragments underneath said skin. They don't have any anesthetics, and I don't really know for sure what, if anything, they are using to try to sanitize the domino fragments.

And yes, it is ALWAYS dominos. This is a thing that seems to be happening specifically among the Latino population. I think it may be cultural. It's always chunks of domino. And he's always from Latin America.

Quite often, she gets a string of these guys all together, leading me to assume that they're all sitting around and deciding to perform cosmetic surgery on themselves, and then taking varied but similar lengths of time to present with symptoms. That is to say, they are doing this in groups, with their buddies.

It's not totally clear why they're doing this, because they usually don't want to talk in any great detail about how chunks of domino got implanted underneath the skin of their penises. The somewhat garbled explanations they offer suggest that the goal is to created a sort of "ribbed for her pleasure" effect against the date when they finally get out of the prison and can see their wives and girlfriends again.

By the time my wife sees them, things are, you know, kind of gross. Not gangrenous, but . . . not good. She has gotten inured to it, at this point. She has some turnover in the nursing staff, for all kinds of reasons, so it's basically a normal part of her work life that she has to explain to the newer nurses what they're likely to see, and emphasize that she needs them to act like it's totally normal for them to see someone with a penis that looks like a bratwurst full of green mayonnaise.

She also treats people with COVID-19, but I don't have any good stories about that. There have not been any deaths from it among the inmates and other detainees she cares for, that I know of, but certainly many hospitalizations. Everyone is on edge: prisoners, guards, support staff, you name it.

Wæs se grimma gæst Grendel haten,
mære mearcstapa, se þe moras heold

deadDMwalking
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FUCK ME. I have a problem reading things all the way through. I got to 'ribbed for her pleasure', took a domino break and came back for 'green mayonnaise'. This might get ugly.

HVB

deadDMwalking wrote:

FUCK ME. I have a problem reading things all the way through. I got to 'ribbed for her pleasure', took a domino break and came back for 'green mayonnaise'. This might get ugly.

Hahaha!

Apparently it's not so rare in prisons. I've actually heard of this happening in other countries too, though its usually with glass beads or anything similar. I guess when you have dominoes you can get creative.

Fixxxer
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It's been a while now since anyone checked in. Just wanted to drop a line and say that I hope things with everyone are as okay as they can be.

Darker

We are doing okay. Have been hiding out pretty much for a while now, but things aren't looking great for our collective future. Working from home while 3 kids are doing home school has been a challenge, but right now my job has said we are going back to full in-person staffing in 2 weeks and my kids are supposed to go back to face to face school in January. Not sure how either of those things is going to work out, but I guess we'll see.

Board Rider
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I live in California.

Buuuut, despite that, things keep whirling and twirling.

deadDMwalking
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"The dude abides."

Happy that the election is past us and it appears that the peaceful transfer of power is going to happen, so that's a lot of my mental stress that I can set aside. Children have been going to in-person school, and that hasn't been a major cause of cases. The schools have been requiring masks, taking temperature checks, and trying to enable social distancing and while some students have gotten sick, it doesn't look like they got sick from going to school. I've been working from a home office since well before this began and there's no expectation that I stop with my current job duties.

My father-in-law passed away in July and my mother-in-law will be out for Christmas. My wife is worried about her traveling, about her bringing us Covid, and all that good stuff. She's also worried about the case counts in the community, and whether the schools should go online only now before things get worse. Generally I'm pretty good with only worrying about things that require a response - if I don't think there's any change in actions I can take then I'll just let it come. That's where I'm at - we have enough food and water that we could quarantine if we needed to, so the worry part is done. Now it's just waiting.

Board Rider
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Well, I got COVID. At least I am pretty sure I have it. Officially, I won't know until the test results arrive in 3 to 5 business days. No sense of smell or taste is the the main symptom. Cold like symptoms are the others for me.

Sucks. Thought I would be able to squeak by as I am pretty much a home body lately. Pretty sure it was a recently diagnosed coworker who didn't disclose her exposure. So no Christmas gatherings this year for old BR.

Be well my virtual friends and stay safe. Take care of yourselves out there and Happy Holidays!

Fixxxer
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Well, shit. I'm sorry to hear that, BR. Have you impaled your coworker on a giant wooden spike as a warning to others yet, or will that be done later?

Board Rider
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I was thinking something less obvious, like poisoning, but I like where your head is.

Darker

Just make sure that spike is at least 6 feet long.

HVB

Hope you will be ok. Keep us posted. I thought it would be one of those things that I would get eventually but still not yet fortunately.

HVB

Board Rider, are you ok?

So I was reading my old emails cause I have nothing better to do.
12 years ago I used to play dnd with some people from the wizards of the coast message boards or whatever it was called, who lived near by me at the time in NYC
So trying to find out where they all are now, someone told me that one of the guys died a while ago.
His name was Mark, his name online was Wrecan I think, maybe... does anyone have any idea who I'm talking about if it is correct info.

Fixxxer
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I barely knew him personally, but Wrecan was Mark Monack. He passed away several years ago and Rich Burlew wrote him into his comic, The Order of the Stick as a tribute.

https://oots.fandom.com/wiki/Wrecan

Fixxxer
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The Archive just had an anniversary. We've been doing this thing we do -more or less, off and on- for close to 20 years now. This whole affair started way back on the old WotC message boards with the Master DM Competition threads, where we would give writing prompts with a few required inclusions to the community. Not being a moderator there, I got tired of having to ask the admins, hat in hand, for a community reward of a unique title for monthly contest winners. So with a lot of help from friends, most notably Aladdar and Talanall, we got the earliest iteration of The Archive up and running. We've been doing it so long that we've inevitably lost contact with people. Didge. Kesht. Pendergrass. Olshanski. Others. But some 17 years later, here we are.

Would anyone be interested in participating if I found a second judge and we put something up in the Contests & Competitions forum?

Darker

HELL YEAH!!! (That is a yes from me).

Board Rider
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I would like to see something but I tend to do poorly in the comps.

I made it through the COVID...barely. In all truth that shit damn near killed me. If I am being honest I thought the ol' BR wasn't going to be around much longer. 14+ days of scary, humbling, and horrible sickness.

But I beat Cancer and I have now beat COVID-19. Thank God for helping me through both. That, and the thought of having Tal kill off 2 of my PCs just kept me going.

Looking forward to 2021. Cheers everyone!

Fixxxer
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It's gonna take more than cancer and covid to kick you off this mortal coil.

MinusInnocence
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I'm grateful to hear you pulled through, BR. It's been a hell of a year.

On our end, Collin's mother and I are separating. Neither of us really handled the stress from 2020 in a very healthy or constructive way and just sort of drifted apart. I think it's permanent. In the short term, not much is going to change: I'm still living here with them and have continued with Collin's homeschooling. In the long term, it really won't look very different either: Michelle isn't well, and there are more bad days than good lately. With Collin, a house full of crazy animals and just everyday chores and errands, she's going to need all the help she can get.

The idea is to keep everything as seamless and "the same" as possible for Collin so I'll be getting a place in the neighborhood. I haven't worked full time since I moved here so that will be a change, and because the plan is for me to remain his primary home educator I'm looking for remote work with a flexible schedule. They're still my family: when we decided it wasn't working out, the thought of moving back to Houston never even crossed my mind. Sticking around is just the most obvious thing in the world.

On a lighter note, I deactivated my Facebook account (although some of the job opportunities I'm focusing on involve social media so I may be dragged back in against my will). That means I have more time for just about everything else: my duck blog on Instagram is seeing regular updates and I'm trying to get everything squared away to come back here to the Archive full-time.

I'm definitely interested in judging a new competition to celebrate the milestone and I can't wait to see new posts here on a regular basis.

Happy New Year, everybody. Don't say "at least it can't be worse than last year," because it absolutely can and for some of us it probably will be. But at least for now, all of us are still aboveground, so we just have to keep on truckin'.

"Men are the only animals that devote themselves, day in and day out, to making one another unhappy. It is an art like any other. Its virtuosi are called altruists." - H.L. Mencken

Talanall
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Elsewhere on this board, someone asked who Darker has to fuck to get a game started around this place. I'm here to piss on the parade by reassuring you that the answer is "nobody." Even if I were the kind of guy who'd extract sexual favors in return for my services as a DM, my wife would never understand.

I'm going to restart games here sometime shortly after January 20th. I know, I know: there's really no relationship between gaming and presidential officeholders. But I'm going to have difficulty concentrating well enough to do any good until after I feel reasonably secure in the idea that there isn't going to be a last-minute complication that sends the USA plummeting into an unplanned staging of Civil War II: Fact-Free Boogaloo. I am not going to wait for "normal" to return, because there's really no way to tell when that will be.

But I am going to resume play, and it will happen before the end of January 2021. Probably I will not restart all three of the games I was running at once, and I may end up being a little selective about whether I restart all of them. But I'm going to resume Ancestral Burdens for sure; it's first in line, and although there's still some road left to travel, we're getting into what may be a logical endgame scenario with regard to the Bastards' hunt for Berger Cole. That thread of activity is about as close to a plot as I think I can define for the campaign, so basically I'm going to see that one through to the end, and when it's wrapped up, I'm going to consider that campaign "finished."

I've been distant throughout 2020, for a variety of reasons that have led my mental health not to be 100% cooperative with my desire to restart these games. I've talked about some of it in the past; my wife's career went through an unsettled period that now appears to have shaken out, but as that was going away, COVID arrived. And then after that, riots, hurricanes, and the late unrest concerning the 2020 election. All of you have witnessed the unfolding clusterfuck, so I'm sure you get it. You get stressed out, Sad Brain happens, and then you have to deal.

At present, I'm a player in a weekly Friday-night Savage Worlds campaign, and I'm running a Saturday evening dungeon crawl for my wife and a group of friends that I managed to drag together. For whatever reason, Sad Brain had absolutely no fucking problem with the idea of running my first weekly, real-time D&D session in something like 15 years, but the idea of reinstating a campaign that I've run via PbP for a decade-plus seemed insurmountably hard.

I'm not saying it makes sense, but that's how it was for months upon months. But I guess if it made sense, it wouldn't be a mental illness. Anyway, that's what happened. I figure an explanation is warranted, and that's what happened.

It seems extremely likely, to me, that the Savage Worlds campaign I play in is going to finish up sometime pretty soon; that system doesn't have levels like D&D, but the character progression mechanic has us up near the equivalent of what you might consider D&D levels 16-20.

If my suspicions are correct, then the end of that campaign is probably going to signal the end of my involvement in that group (the GM and I are on decent terms, but he runs modules, and finds it difficult to handle my admitted tendency to run screaming off of the rails when he inadvertently presents me with something more interesting than the Official Plot). And it would then follow that I will have Friday nights free. I may be amenable to running something on Roll20 at that point, if people display interest.

Wæs se grimma gæst Grendel haten,
mære mearcstapa, se þe moras heold

HVB

Oh I am so worried for Wednesday as well. It was my first time being able to vote and this whole thing has been a catastrophe...I am looking into how I can get my dogs out of the country with us if things get even more insane.

I am looking forward to the game restarting, but yeah, I completely understand the concerns.

Fixxxer
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I feel safe in thinking that the majority -if not all- of us are all looking toward tomorrow with some degree of trepidation. But if I'm honest, I don't see the transfer of power going poorly. Now that several individual politicians are taking this situation personally, I assume that nothing and nobody is going to be able to have a serious impact toward stopping that train.

My real concern is for the near future, and in two ways. First, I don't see the vocal idiot masses suddenly melting away to slink off and hide their shame. While the majority of what we can expect over the next while is just gonna be people bitching online about "Trump one the election, libtards"(sic), I also suspect that a number of people in power on one side of the political spectrum are going to pull stunt after stunt to do anything they can do to remain relevant and pander to the worst of their constituents.

On the other side, I'm also worried that the folks on other side of the table are going to take this moment of relative calm to rest on their laurels and do nothing. I'm hoping that's not the case. People who have been exceptionally loud with promises now hold both the Executive and Legislative branches. There's an opportunity to make good on a lot of claims, and I'd be happy to see a number of them come to fruition, and I'm gonna be pissed if what happens instead is that a cry of "return to normalcy" is used as an excuse for getting fuck-all done.

Talanall
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I'm more pessimistic, and expect that 2021 will see actual violence take place in the US, directed by Trump's supporters toward anyone and everyone on the long list of people they see as enemies to their vision of America. I'd love to be wrong about it. But they've already done it once, and I think they'll feel emboldened to do more. Even before the election and the insurrection, I have to reflect that there was a credible plot to kidnap and/or murder a sitting governor. It doesn't seem to me that the temperature has lowered since then; there appears to be a small but growing subset of Trump supporters whose attitude is that they are more or less at war with the rest of the USA. We certainly have not heard the last of them.

That said, it doesn't seem all that likely to me that the inauguration tomorrow will be prevented, or even substantially disrupted. But I didn't think it was particularly likely that a mob of armed Trump supporters would be incited, by a sitting President, to storm the Capitol. So at the moment, I'm not really inclined to take anything for granted, even such pedestrian ideas as "the National Guard would never turn on a president-elect and assassinate him." The idea that the Secret Service, FBI, and DoD are vetting these men and women is reassuring, but it would be more reassuring if I weren't uncomfortably aware that the January 6th insurrection was made possible by a thorough failure on the part of some of the same people whose job it will be to prevent a disruption on the 20th.

Wæs se grimma gæst Grendel haten,
mære mearcstapa, se þe moras heold

deadDMwalking
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Well the inauguration happened. I watched it on TV and it was awesomely boring! I even watched it on C-SPAN and they're not known for compelling viewing. I double-checked the headlines, and still nothing terrible - I'm cautiously optimistic for the future.

I have some real hope for important legislative actions, but the way the Senate works, 60+ votes are required to overcome a filibuster, and I don't think that will change. Democrats getting to put things to a VOTE, so they can actually point to obstructionist Republicans for killing legislation may help, but even if there's a strong call to action, I expect the things that really OUGHT to have bipartisan support not to. And let's face it - enough Republicans seem to think that ensuring a FAILURE of the current president is the best way to regain power.

But it's 2021 - most of us survived the last administration - and we had a peaceful transition of power - all things I had varying levels of major doubt about.

So yeah - happy to hear that some games will start running again. Also happy to hear there will be a competition - I feel like submitting something.

Fixxxer
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Since there's interest, a competition thread has been posted. I'm looking forward to getting back to our roots and reading what you guys come up with.

drumandfight
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Hey, all. I hope you're doing well.

I haven't kept up with this site nearly as much as I would have liked, but I am fortunate to have semi-regular interactions with DDMW and Fix via text.

I have oddly settled into quarantine. For those who don't know, in 2019 Aly got a job teaching history at a good high school in town and I was hired for a tenure-track history position at Bakersfield College. So, we got about a year of in-class teaching done before quarantine hit. The switch to online was tumultuous at first, but we have really adapted well; she teaches synchronously online while all of my classes are either asynchronous online or correspondence (for my Inmate Scholars).

We were fortunate enough to buy our first house last August in a nice mature-neighborhood downtown. Thankfully we didn't have to move to the Westside track-home, treeless wasteland. In September I contracted COVID, but my symptoms were extremely light - essentially asymptomatic save for a mild headache. I've been donating plasma as often as possible since then, so that's one silver lining to come of it.

Been gaming PBP on another site to keep sane, and I recently just created a character - a Ruinborn Dwarf Barbarian - in a 5e game who is Jugg'r's cousin in my head cannon. Kho'nan Shieldcrusher, "The Beast." That brought back some fond memories of all my homies over here.

Really, I am just thankful for leaving Japan when I did, which allowed us to finish our MAs when we did, which allowed us to get these jobs when we did. If anything had deviated, we would be proper fucked right now.

That's basically it on my end. I would like to get back into it here. At the very least with Jugg'r if Mike's game is still going.

I hope you are all healthy and well.

- Jeff

Board Rider
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Glad to see you on the forum Jeff. Even happier to read you're doing well bud. Stay easy.

Fixxxer
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Yeah, honky. Welcome back.

drumandfight
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Missed you guys.